Reading Time: 9 minutesThe Misogynist Mask I’m convinced that misogynistic men are closeted people fooling women for generations. They act so well too, like, let me get up and give you applause. I´m sure they would make great actors. These men (and women) are often deeply sexist and harbor spite for no apparent reason. Throughout my life, I’ve…
life lessons
unlucky or unloved? Your Journey to Independence
Reading Time: 6 minutesAs I have mentioned earlier, my life journey began early. It’s easy to understand: I became independent very early by limitations of my free will being compromised.
Around the age of 13-15, I started thinking about moving out, getting a job, and taking care of myself, all alone. Even though I had many friends, I always felt like an outsider within the group. This could stem from the fact that I was raised differently than my friends.
Empowering Women: Your Financial Independence and Rights in Islam explained
Reading Time: 9 minutesA man who is pursuing me must not be needy, lack ambition, or rely on me. This is not because I need financial support; I am financially and spiritually independent. I expect him to come prepared, as I have been independent most of my life and don’t rely on anyone financially.
How Unwarranted Manifesting can change your Life: A Journey of Breaking Free from the Law of Jante
Reading Time: 6 minutesIn this insightful piece, we explore how unwarranted manifesting transformed my life and led me to break free from the restrictive societal norms of Norway, particularly the Law of Jante. This unspoken social code discourages individual success and ambition, fostering a culture of conformity and mediocrity. Through my personal journey, I contrast the stifling effects of the Law of Jante with the liberating and encouraging societal norms of the United States, epitomized by the American Dream. I also delve into the Islamic perspective on success, highlighting how faith and perseverance can drive personal growth and communal well-being. This article serves as a call to recognize and overcome limiting beliefs, embrace individuality, and strive for a life of abundance and fulfillment.
Is Identity a Choice or a Product of Our Circumstances? Find your answer through Islamic wisdom
Reading Time: 13 minutesA Muslim is not to fear anything in this world except the creator who created it all, Allah (SWT). Look at it from this perspective: Why should we fear anything other than the One who created fear? Fear the Creator of Jahannam, not Jahannam itself. Fear the One who created the animals you are afraid of, not the animals themselves. Fear the One who created the person you are afraid of, not the person themselves.
From Anger to Peace? How Faith Transformed My Life and Helped Me Overcome Adversity!
Reading Time: 7 minutesIn my late teenage years up until early 20s, I used to react fiercely to anyone attacking me with their harsh words. My instinct was to retaliate, to make them feel as miserable as they tried to make me feel. Back then, I struggled to manage my emotions and stay calm when I faced adversity. Though I’ve always been kind, continuous boundary crossing or heated debates could push me to a dark place.
Embracing Identity: My Journey from Quran School to Western Society
Reading Time: 21 minutesIf you’ve ever felt like the world is too big, too confusing or just downright overwhelming to tackle on your own, then this article is for you. I will take you through life as a young immigrant little girl from an Islamic background to the West in one of the coldest countries in the entire world. In my home country I started off life very promising to not so great after relocation. Everything from losing faith in Allah to finding Him again, going through catastrophe after catastrophe. From being married, to divorced. Juggled multiple businesses from the age of 16. Losing friends and family, isolation, therapy, mental health retreats from within. Living abroad, living in youth facilities, facing racism and discrimination as a woman and so much more – to now finding that light, that purpose, peace of mind and success. Will some of my life lessons and experiences help someone find theirs?