Reading Time: 6 minutesWhen something isn’t yours, do you still go after it? Is there a dream you keep pursuing, even though you have been given signs from Allah that it isn’t meant for you? Let me tell you how to tell if something is not for you and how to let go, and find your passions that…
Summer Adventures, Website Redesigns, and New Beginnings
Reading Time: 5 minutesHappy Monday, guys!
Our Oslo summer has been a mix of sunny days and unexpected rainstorms, making each day an adventure. The past two weeks have been like that for me, and for most people too. I have had my mom and brothers visiting. Summer family activities, website redesign, home workout tips, and Oslo summer evenings with beautiful sunsets are just some of the fun I have had over the past weeks.
unlucky or unloved? Your Journey to Independence
Reading Time: 4 minutesAs I have mentioned earlier, my life journey began early. It’s easy to understand: I became independent very early by limitations of my free will being compromised.
Around the age of 13-15, I started thinking about moving out, getting a job, and taking care of myself, all alone. Even though I had many friends, I always felt like an outsider within the group. This could stem from the fact that I was raised differently than my friends.
How a Year of Consistent Gym Workouts Transformed My Life: The Surprising Mental and Physical Benefits You Need to Know!
Reading Time: 11 minutesThis month marks a year since I started working out consistently. I have never been happier in my entire life, especially mentally.
At first, during my renewed gym journey, I would feel uneasy when I skipped a day at the gym. My mind would revert to how it used to be before I worked out consistently, which was quite eye-opening. I didn’t realize how much of a difference working out made until I did it consistently, when one day during this journey, suddenly stopped for no valid reason.
Empowering Women: Your Financial Independence and Rights in Islam explained
Reading Time: 6 minutesA man who is pursuing me must not be needy, lack ambition, or rely on me. This is not because I need financial support; I am financially and spiritually independent. I expect him to come prepared, as I have been independent most of my life and don’t rely on anyone financially.
How to overcome the Shadows: A Personal Journey Through Sleep Paralysis and Faith
Reading Time: 8 minutesHave you ever felt trapped in your own body, screaming for help but unable to make a sound? In this deeply personal account, the author shares a harrowing experience with sleep paralysis, revealing the intense fear and helplessness that accompanies this condition.
Drawing strength from faith and spirituality, I offer insights into coping mechanisms and the importance of mental and emotional resilience. Let me get into how I overcome fear, seeking refuge in Allah, and finding inner peace amid the chaos of sleep paralysis.
How Unwarranted Manifesting can change your Life: A Journey of Breaking Free from the Law of Jante
Reading Time: 4 minutesIn this insightful piece, we explore how unwarranted manifesting transformed my life and led me to break free from the restrictive societal norms of Norway, particularly the Law of Jante. This unspoken social code discourages individual success and ambition, fostering a culture of conformity and mediocrity. Through my personal journey, I contrast the stifling effects of the Law of Jante with the liberating and encouraging societal norms of the United States, epitomized by the American Dream. I also delve into the Islamic perspective on success, highlighting how faith and perseverance can drive personal growth and communal well-being. This article serves as a call to recognize and overcome limiting beliefs, embrace individuality, and strive for a life of abundance and fulfillment.
Is Identity a Choice or a Product of Our Circumstances? Find your answer through Islamic wisdom
Reading Time: 9 minutesA Muslim is not to fear anything in this world except the creator who created it all, Allah (SWT). Look at it from this perspective: Why should we fear anything other than the One who created fear? Fear the Creator of Jahannam, not Jahannam itself. Fear the One who created the animals you are afraid of, not the animals themselves. Fear the One who created the person you are afraid of, not the person themselves.
How you can embrace Celibacy by obtaining composure from zina and Adultery
Reading Time: 5 minutesSince March 2023, I’ve avoided adultery and Zina (Islamic term for unlawful sexual intercourse). A huge part of me changed after I left my marriage. It’s almost like I transformed overnight. Returning from Los Angeles, my mindset shifted drastically; I no longer felt like the person who left the country before.
Understanding the Human Compulsion for Negativity and the Journey to Self-Fulfillment | Become the best version of yourself
Reading Time: 4 minutesThis week, we are introducing a new column highlighting posts about leadership development and mindset. Here is the first article sharing my thoughts on this topic. I often write these pieces to motivate myself to continue my journey, and now I want to share them with you. I hope you find this article beneficial and relatable.
Finding your Own Path: A Muslim Woman’s Journey with Hijab and Personal Choice
Reading Time: 9 minutesI am a Muslim woman not wearing hijab. As a practicing Muslim woman who doesn’t wear the hijab, I’ve faced many questions and misconceptions about my faith. This is my story of navigating personal choices, cultural expectations, and religious practices.
Dichotomy of Desire: Balancing Worldly Ambitions and Spiritual Fulfillment
Reading Time: 3 minutesOne part of me desires an extravagant life filled with luxury: flashy cars, exquisite jewelry, grand villas, and designer clothing. Another side of me longs for a simple life—a loving, uncomplicated husband, two to four children, a modest home, and a regular lifestyle, all in complete obedience to Allah SWT. This stark contrast creates a challenging dilemma for planning my future. Choosing between these lifestyles isn’t straightforward, but I find solace in the thought that living in complete obedience to Allah would bring true fulfillment.
From Anger to Peace? How Faith Transformed My Life and Helped Me Overcome Adversity!
Reading Time: 5 minutesIn my late teenage years up until early 20s, I used to react fiercely to anyone attacking me with their harsh words. My instinct was to retaliate, to make them feel as miserable as they tried to make me feel. Back then, I struggled to manage my emotions and stay calm when I faced adversity. Though I’ve always been kind, continuous boundary crossing or heated debates could push me to a dark place.
Unlock the Secret to Fluent Arabic with 9 Insider Tips for Rapid Language Mastery
Reading Time: 8 minutesI was raised in East Africa, where Arabic is the official language. In traditional households like the one I grew up in, we often lived with some relatives. Naturally, I learned through relatives and family members. I grew up as the black sheep of the family, developing a unique personality early on.
From Heartbreak to Faith: How Divorce Transformed My Life and Strengthened My Beliefs
Reading Time: 8 minutesI have sacrificed a few things to get closer to Allah. Among these are revealing clothing and acrylic nails (so that my Salah can be accepted In sha Allah), how I used to date a few years ago, avoiding Zina and Adultery. I have chosen to distance myself from anything that alters the natural beauty Allah has bestowed upon me. This commitment is part of my dedication to Islamic modesty and living a Muslim lifestyle that aligns with my faith.
Consistent Prayer Habits: 5 Easy Steps to Never Miss a Prayer Again
Reading Time: 5 minutesAchieving consistency in prayer is essential for spiritual growth and fulfillment. Follow these simple steps to establish lasting prayer habits.
Exposing bias: My Encounter with Discrimination at the Gym – A Woman’s Role in Perpetuating Prejudice
Reading Time: 7 minutesMy friend and I were harassed by a lady at the gym last year and this is how we managed to get through it. For the sake of the story, let´s just call my friend “Lisa”. Last summer, on June 5th, I visited my family, and it was then that me and Lisa encountered this unpleasant situation with one of the gym members. Mind you, this is the first time ever that I had experienced discrimination or hate at the gym from someone who could quite literally be my great grandma! I was shaken and left in awe after this incident.
Empowering Muslim Girls: Self-Development Strategies from an Islamic Perspective
Reading Time: 9 minutesAre you searching for ways to be inspired as a Muslim girl through self-development? Look no further! Our blog explores leadership, confidence-building, goal-setting, and overcoming challenges, all through the lens of Islamic teachings, life lessons, and history. Discover how Muslim girls can realize their potential and thrive in today’s world with inspiring resources.
How I Rediscovered and Embraced My Islamic Faith: A Personal Journey
Reading Time: 13 minutesGrowing up in a small town in Norway with my parents, I never missed to practice Islam, ie. worshipping Allah and studying the Quran with my parents. My parents ensured we received a thorough education throughout my childhood. Being raised this way allowed me to learn from a very young age how to behave and respect both my elders and my peers. This awareness was invaluable at that age, as it taught me several important life lessons. I learned to reflect akin to mentality, injustice, cultural differences and my religion to mention a few, on the basis of my upbringing.
Embracing Identity: My Journey from Quran School to Western Society
Reading Time: 14 minutesIf you’ve ever felt like the world is too big, too confusing or just downright overwhelming to tackle on your own, then this article is for you. I will take you through life as a young immigrant little girl from an Islamic background to the West in one of the coldest countries in the entire world. In my home country I started off life very promising to not so great after relocation. Everything from losing faith in Allah to finding Him again, going through catastrophe after catastrophe. From being married, to divorced. Juggled multiple businesses from the age of 16. Losing friends and family, isolation, therapy, mental health retreats from within. Living abroad, living in youth facilities, facing racism and discrimination as a woman and so much more – to now finding that light, that purpose, peace of mind and success. Will some of my life lessons and experiences help someone find theirs?
I was racially profiled – Inspiring Responses: Navigating and Overcoming Racism and Discrimination
Reading Time: 7 minutesLife can unexpectedly throw challenges your way, often without any valid reason. One such incident occurred in 2017 when I was racially profiled by a bus driver, an encounter that ended with me being taken away by the police.